[Intro - Female] [00:04.04]He goes first [00:08.10]He goes first in love [00:11.90]He goes first in dying [00:17.49]And that is why I can answer [01:02.41]I watched them preach it for an hour [01:05.01]And refuse the heavier word four lines down [01:10.67]I learned what the verse costs [01:12.80]When the man receiving it has not bled for you [Pre-Chorus - Female] [01:19.11]But you do not say it to me [01:23.15]You do not have to say it to me [01:26.73]You go first [01:29.75]And I find I want to follow [Chorus - Female] [01:37.25]I want to [01:38.81]This is not coerced, this is not extracted [01:43.11]This is freely as the gospel [01:46.44]Because you go first in love [01:51.20]I receive and I offer [01:54.52]Because you bled before you asked [01:59.57]The yes is mine to give [02:03.15]And I give it [02:06.87]Joyfully [Verse 2 - Female] [02:11.68]You die before you lead [02:13.44]You serve before you stand [02:15.72]You listen when I speak [02:17.50]You honor what I am [02:19.78]You bear the heavier weight [02:21.82]And never make me carry it [02:23.82]You take the harder vow [02:25.68]And never quote it at me [Pre-Chorus - Female] [02:27.76]And what I offer back [02:30.42]Is not what they demanded [02:32.46]It is what your dying made beautiful to give [02:36.38]It is the yes that was never theirs to ask for [Chorus - Female] [02:42.22]I want to [02:45.96]I want to [02:47.56]This is not coerced, this is not extracted [02:51.89]This is freely as the gospel [02:55.19]Because you go first in love [03:00.03]I receive and I offer [03:03.25]Because you bled before you asked [03:08.31]The yes is mine to give [03:11.86]And I give it [03:15.58]Joyfully [Bridge - Female] [03:20.42]The cross is the standard [03:24.48]The covenant is the floor [03:28.02]You render Christ to me [03:31.12]And I render the bride to you [03:36.12]This is what Paul actually wrote [03:39.67]Beneath the centuries of misuse [03:43.75]A tender marriage rendering the gospel [03:48.07]At the level of one woman's yes [Chorus - Female] [03:55.23]I want to [03:56.73]I want to [03:58.59]This is not coerced, this is not extracted [04:02.67]This is freely as the gospel [04:05.98]Because you go first in love [04:10.64]I receive and I offer [04:14.04]Because you bled before you asked [04:19.12]The yes is mine to give [04:22.64]And I give it [04:26.40]Joyfully [Outro - Female] [04:30.76]He goes first [04:32.78]He goes first [04:34.86]And I follow [04:37.30]Freely [04:38.86]He goes first [04:40.90]And my yes [04:43.47]Is mine to give [04:46.97]And I give it [04:50.71]Joyfully